Apr 7, 2011 - Life, Random    14 Comments

Liebster – The Honour of Being Read

When I started this blog way way back in June 2007 (according to my Archives) it’s sole purpose was to serve as a parenting journal of my (our) experiences of Parenthood and as a chronicle of the milestones and developmental phases Georgia progressed through.

In many ways it has served that purpose really well. I can actually read back and remember her first words, her fascination at seeing real life ducks and geese, and all those wonderful conversations we have had. I haven’t always been very good at keeping this blog up-to-date. Completely guilty in fact of never writing about our holidays, saving drafts upon drafts of posts, half written, never posted, always meant.

This year though, I have decided to make more of an effort, not least because I would so so love to print it all bound in a hard cover book form to hand over to Georgia when she’s 21…or maybe when she becomes a mum (now that’s a scary thought!).ย She does not know that this blog exists, nor that she is the subject of such passionate discussions at times. Perhaps one day, I’ll tell her, but only if she’s good ๐Ÿ˜‰

What has been a wonderful extension of this greater effort is the support and general friendship that has grown from readers commenting, sharing thoughts, opinions, advice.ย Thank you so very much to Circus Queen who nominated this blog for the Liebster Award, with such a wonderful description of my ramblings:

Stories of Georgous written by Li-Ling who grew up in Malaysia but is now raising her daughter Georgia in the UK. She speaks eloquently of the contrasts between the cultures and parenting styles, often sharing the funny or startling profound things that Georgia says. You donโ€™t have to be from an Asian background (or even be a parent!) to find something extraordinarily human in her writing

Liebster Blog Award

And in accepting this Award, the three steps following are:

1. Create blog post about accepting, with Liebster logo.
2. Link back to person who has nominated me, and happily accept their praises.
3. Nominate 3-5 of my fav blogs, that maybe not everyone in the blogosphere will have tripped over but that are nonetheless FAB, and tell them theyโ€™ve been nominated.

A little bit of digging around on the Award hasn’t revealed very much apart from the fact that it is a way of helping blogs you like gain a greater readership or following. These blogs should have 300 or less readers, apparently.

So here goes my three nominations:

http://kloppenmum.wordpress.com/ written by Karyn, who sometimes writes so assertively it’s a bit scary ;), but her real, really lovely (!)ย personality comes through in her responses to her comments (you are allowed to disagree with her and she’ll still be your friend, I hope :). She is so passionate about parenting and creating a better life for her family and herself, you just want to keep reading.

My Adventures in the US of A Letti is a ‘real-life’ friend from my undergrad days deep in the jungles of Borneo (not quite!). She moved to the US from Malaysia and has been there for a while now. This blog and her other one on parenting Jaxon, her lovely boy Our Journey in to Parenthood are interesting descriptive stories of her experiences both in life and in parenting.

Our World My World written by… :O I don’t actually know her name. It’s a fascinating journey of parenting in Singapore, a super-‘kiasu’ ( I will come round to explaining that term soon, for now, it means competitive) country. I’m seriously in awe of how she manages to not be overly influenced by the hugely competitive parenting environment, being able to keep to an identity and a somewhat laidback (by Asian standards!) approach to parenting her children. Being there supporting, talking and spending time with them – just the way it should be!

So there you are, thank you all my lovely readers. And if you trip over to one of these blogs, I’m sure they’ll happily welcome you.

© 2011, Li-ling. All rights reserved.


  • oh dear, a liebster nomination! thank you ๐Ÿ™‚ I hope to get my rear in gear and write a post to pass it forward ๐Ÿ™‚

  • woohoo, congratulations.

  • My pleasure. I so enjoy reading your blog.

    • That is such an honour considering the fact that you’re an English Lit major!

  • Letti: sorry (?) wasn’t sure if you’d been nominated before?

  • M: Thank you ๐Ÿ™‚

  • ๐Ÿ™‚ haven’;t been nominated before, li ling.. no sorries, please. ๐Ÿ™‚ I was just very pleasantly surprised. Thank you! ๐Ÿ™‚

  • ๐Ÿ™‚ don’t worry it only took me about 2 weeks to get my act in gear ๐Ÿ˜‰

  • Wow! Congratulations! This word does not glorify the effort and time you have put in on being a good mother, wife and home maker. I wish I had understood what Life is much earlier and been a better mother! Well Done!!!

    • Considering the results…I would say, you didn’t do too badly did you? Mum ๐Ÿ˜‰

  • Thankyou so much for the nomination.
    I will certainly be your friend if you disagree with me, and I will continue to be a bit scary from time to time… ๐Ÿ˜‰
    I am passionate about how we raise children – the results of our work will create the societies of tomorrow.

    • You’re welcome ๐Ÿ™‚

  • Thank you very much Li-ling, for the nomination and your very generous and encouraging comment of my writing and thoughts. :> By the way, the name’s Shirley. :>

    • Hi Shirley! Nice to meet you ๐Ÿ™‚ You’re most welcome. I’m somewhat in awe about how ‘laid back’ you are with all that kiasu-ness about you ๐Ÿ™‚

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